Sunday, August 24, 2014

Who is the Author of marriage? God or man?



No one is an authorized baptizer by virtue of position or office. Any Christian has the right to baptize a person who confesses his faith in Jesus as the Messiah and God's Son. This is not a clerical act. It is not the prerogative of an "ordained minister" for every child of God is a minister of God, and ordained of God to fulfill the divine will. We should encourage Christian fathers to immerse members of their own families, or those who lead others to the Lamb of God to immerse them. What is wrong with allowing a high school student who has been instrumental in the conversion of one of his schoolmates to baptize that one in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit?
In open forums the question of performing marriage ceremonies is always raised as an exception to what I have stated. But one who performs marriages does so as a representative of the state, not of the community of the saints. It is a license from the state which permits him to serve in this capacity and the qualification for officiating is set by the constitution of the state, and not provided within the framework of God revelation.” ~ excerpt from “The Clergy System” by W. Carl Ketcherside 


This question often arises- “Who has the authority to consecrate a marriage?” According to the laws of the land, there are certain qualifications and requirements by the state that determine when a marriage becomes official. According to one website, open-ministry.org, you must have certain qualifications to perform a marriage. 


Entitlement or authorization means that an individual is either entitled or authorized to perform the solemnization of marriage by the ordaining entity and the respective state.”
What you will need to perform a wedding:
  • You must be ordained
  • Have a Letter of Good Standing
  • Have a copy of your Ordination Credential
  • Know the State Laws of where the marriage will be performed
  • Have a Wedding Certificate for the couple to sign

These qualifications appear to make marriage as a product of human invention and not divine authority. I understand that Paul and Peter both tell us to obey those governments who watch over us. Yet, both Paul and Peter lost their lives because they spoke of the truth in Christ; that His authority supersedes any man-made ordinances that run contrary to God and His word. The Pharisees also used a coin with the image of Caesar to try to trap the Lord Jesus Christ. His reply, “Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's; and unto God the things that are God's

If marriage is God’s divine covenant for His creation, then it would best serve us to know how we need to defend this institution. According to some states and countries, marriage re-definition is a popular item. For the better part of 2000 years, marriage was between one man and one woman. Understandably, polygamy was also an option in some cultures, but today we see a total re-definition of marriage as being between more than one man and one woman for life.  You would have to live on a deserted island to not know that the push for same-sex marriage is the “new” definition of marriage. Yet, we see a totally different view if we read the Bible and the very words of the Lord Jesus Christ. 

Matthew :194 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

The biblical definition is one man and one woman for life. This is God’s will for mankind. The words of the Lord originate “from the beginning.” In the first book of the Bible, we see the definition of marriage ordained by God. 

Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

If we notice, marriage is not a human invention. Anyone who redefines marriage will have to answer to God. If that is the case, does man have any authority to change, redefine, ordain, perform, or institute marriage? The answer is no. Man must abide by God’s rules especially when it comes to marriage. Anyone who believes that he or she can change the definition of marriage has just made themselves into a god. This is very dangerous.
When any website, publication, pastor, or government official redefines marriage, they do so against the will of God. Same-sex marriage is not the first instance in which marriage is redefined. For now, the majority of the Evangelical church does not view same-sex marriage as a “valid” marriage. I say “for now” as if same-sex marriage is in succession with remarriage after divorce. 

Divorce and remarriage is so common today that one would hardly find a separation from “Christian” divorce and secular divorce. In fact, the modern institutionalized church makes divorce and remarriage much more attainable with the benefit of twisting scripture and preaching a false Gospel devoid of repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation. 

In fact, W. Carl Ketcherside’s assessment that the clergy system is really a representative of the state and not the community of saints is spot on. The ordained clergy MUST adhere to the qualifications of the state or these institutions stand to lose 501c3 status. A time is coming and has already arrived that any church, pastor, or ordained minister that does not conform to the laws of land will face retribution. Yet, these clergy have already succumbed to the lies of divorce and remarriage. Slowly and surely, congregation after congregation will ignore the definition of one man and one woman for life, just as they ignored the “no-fault” divorce law that crept into the churches across America. 

The greatest enemy against marriage is the same as he was yesterday. He twists God’s words, disguises himself as an angel of light, and he infiltrates the least expected of places. “Yea, hath God said?” Did God really say He hates divorce? Did God really say that ALL “remarriages” are adultery? Did God really say? 

1 Cor 7:10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

Dear brethren, the enemy has entered the man-made institutions of Churchianity and seeks to destroy from within. Marriage is always the target just as marriage was the target from the beginning. The only way to defeat an enemy of this power is to align ourselves under the Headship of Christ. Since the Lord Jesus Christ defeated the enemy at the cross of Calvary we must repent of the lies of marriage redefinition and marriage deconstruction and believe by faith in the permanence of marriage. The time is now. One man and one woman for life. No excuses, no exceptions, so help us God.  

In Christ’s love,

Neil  

Saturday, August 16, 2014

The Woman At The Well and Permanence of Marriage.



 This blog is in defense for God's design for the permanence of marriage between one man and one woman for life.(Genesis 2:24) Often some will use certain  scripture to validate that God's word gives an instance or instances where the Lord Jesus Christ offers anything other than the permanence of marriage. The story of woman at the well (John 4) is one such case. The argument goes like this: "Jesus recognizes the woman's five husbands, therefore He recognizes five marriages as valid marriages. Thus, I can remain in a second marriage after divorce."The following is the response to this argument. As always, I pray that you test  anything I write to the full council of God's word.

(KJV) John 4:3 He left Judaea, and departed again into Galilee.
4 And he must needs go through Samaria.5 Then cometh he to a city of Samaria, which is called Sychar, near to the parcel of ground that Jacob gave to his son Joseph. 6 Now Jacob's well was there. Jesus therefore, being wearied with his journey, sat thus on the well: and it was about the sixth hour.7 There cometh a woman of Samaria to draw water: Jesus saith unto her, Give me to drink. 8 (For his disciples were gone away unto the city to buy meat.)
9 Then saith the woman of Samaria unto him, How is it that thou, being a Jew, askest drink of me, which am a woman of Samaria? for the Jews have no dealings with the Samaritans.
10 Jesus answered and said unto her, If thou knewest the gift of God, and who it is that saith to thee, Give me to drink; thou wouldest have asked of him, and he would have given thee living water.
11 The woman saith unto him, Sir, thou hast nothing to draw with, and the well is deep: from whence then hast thou that living water?
12 Art thou greater than our father Jacob, which gave us the well, and drank thereof himself, and his children, and his cattle? 13 Jesus answered and said unto her, Whosoever drinketh of this water shall thirst again:14 But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life.
15 The woman saith unto him, Sir, give me this water, that I thirst not, neither come hither to draw.
16 Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband, and come hither.
17 The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband:18 For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly. 19 The woman saith unto him, Sir, I perceive that thou art a prophet.
20 Our fathers worshipped in this mountain; and ye say, that in Jerusalem is the place where men ought to worship. 21 Jesus saith unto her, Woman, believe me, the hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father.
22 Ye worship ye know not what: we know what we worship: for salvation is of the Jews.
23 But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him.
24 God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.
25 The woman saith unto him, I know that Messias cometh, which is called Christ: when he is come, he will tell us all things.

26 Jesus saith unto her, I that speak unto thee am he.


The story of the woman at the well is a great example of how God redeemed the world through His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord Jesus Christ offers this Samaritan woman living water. She believes that this “prophet” is offering her water that will never make her thirst again. What she does not realize is that the Lord Jesus Christ is offering Himself as her salvation. This woman knows the stories of the prophets and that the long awaited Messiah will return. The Lord Jesus says, I that speak to you am he.”


No one will argue that this story reflects the perfect example of the Gospel because here was a woman who was living in sin, and the Lord offered Himself as the remedy of that sin. Yet, the Lord makes it clear that true worshippers will worship God in spirit and in truth. This woman cannot worship the Father until she accepts the Son. We must remember that chapter 3 precedes this chapter. A chapter famous for this verse. 

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.


We know that in context, the story of the woman at the well is a direct correlation to the Gospel.  Yet, when it comes to discussing the permanence of marriage with some, this story of the Gospel often enters the conversation. Some will use this story as an example that the Lord Jesus Christ recognizes the fact that this woman had five husbands. They conclude that since the Lord recognized these husbands, that the Lord also recognized the marriages as valid and approved marriages. Thus, anyone in a "remarriage" should not exit  these "remarriages" less they would break another marriage. This is a fallacy because one must believe that the Lord approves "remarriages" as valid marriages when He does not. The context of the argument is that since the Lord approved of these remarriages, anyone in a current “remarriage” after divorce should view this new marriage as binding. 


In his book, “The Momentary Marriage, A Parable of Permanence”, author and pastor John Piper believes that “remarriages” after divorce are valid marriages and therefore divorce of these “remarriages” is not required.  Piper writes:


“Another reason I think remarried couples should stay together is that when Jesus met the woman of Samaria, he said to her, “You have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband.” (John 4:18). When Jesus says, “The one have now is not your husband,” he seems to imply that the other five were. Not that it’s right to divorce and marry five times. But the way Jesus speaks of it sounds as though he saw them as real marriages. Illicit. Adulterous to enter into, but real. Valid.”-page 170



I would strongly argue against this for a few reasons. First, Piper assumes that these marriages are all “valid” marriages simply believing that Jesus saw these five marriages as valid marriages. What if Jesus was making a point to a woman that understood the laws of the day and that five marriages were a possibility if the woman was "put away" five times according to the Law of Moses? (Deut 24:1-4) 

In the Lord’s time, certain Pharisees would accept a divorce for just about any reason. Therefore, this woman would not understand anything other than believing she was in five marriages simply because the five men put her away according to the law. This could explain the fact that she did not bother getting married anymore for fear of maybe being divorced again. This is assuming she was married and divorced five times. 


Another reason I strongly disagree with Piper’s logic is that we simply do not have the factual evidence of how the five marriages ended. What if all these marriages ended in the death of all five husbands? Could we not conclude that the Lord did indeed recognize her marriages as valid marriages and that her living with a man while not married is still sinful? If we assume that all marriages ended in divorce, we know that this woman understood the laws of divorce. Yet, we must refer to the other Gospels and the full counsel of God’s word on how the Lord handled His view of divorce. 


Mark 10:2And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.3 And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? 4 And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. 5 And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. 6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. 7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 


The Lord was engaging the woman on what she already understood about the laws and that her five marriages were valid according to the laws of Moses. This is no indication that the Lord approved of her five marriages. We know in Mark’s account that the Lord only recognizes one man and one woman in a one-flesh covenant for life.  




Another reason I strongly disagree with Piper’s assessment is the actual context of the verses in John 4. In verses 6 through 15, the Lord engages the woman with seeking water from the well. The woman makes an assumption that a Jew would not as much pass through Samaria let alone ask a Samaritan woman for water. (John 4:9) Yet, we know the compassion of the Lord and He engages this woman to offer her living water which is the gift of God.(John 4:10) He and the disciples also stay in Sychar for two days. (John 4:43)

The woman asks the Lord if He is greater than Jacob. (John 4:12) The Lord replies:
John 4:13 Jesus answered and said unto her, Whosoever drinketh of this water shall thirst again:14 But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life. 15 The woman saith unto him, Sir, give me this water, that I thirst not, neither come hither to draw.

This woman wants actual water that never again makes her "flesh" thirst, yet the Lord is offering her so much more.  In contrast, God was in covenant with Jacob, yet this Man was indeed offering her a better promise, a better way, a better life, and a better Covenant. Instead of telling her plainly that He is the Messiah, the Lord first addresses the root of why he came into the world and why she will continue to thirst with the water from this well. He asks her a question that digs deep to her very soul.

John 4:16 Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband, and come hither.

If you notice, the Lord did not ask for ALL of her husbands, He asked for her husband, singular. This is significant, because the woman has to not only answer as to why she does not have a husband, but she has to do so knowing she had five husbands. What the Lord does is He exposes this woman’s condition. He asks a question that is specific to why she needs living water. Her answer is simple. She says that she has no husband. Is the answer to this question accurate? Why would she answer with, “I have no husband, but I am living with a man that is not my husband,…should I go call him instead?”



John 4:17,18 The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband: For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly.



These “prophetic” words get the heart of the issue. The Lord is exposing why this woman needs living water. It has nothing to do with us believing the Lord would approve of her five husbands when He specifically asks for her singular husband. We cannot use this story as an example to validate remarriages after a divorce. In fact, every time the Lord speaks of a “remarriage” after divorce, He calls this adultery. (Matthew 19:9; Mark 10:11, 12; and Luke 16:18)

Another reason to argue Piper's point is that the Lord Jesus Christ takes away the Law of Moses and replaces that law with the law of grace and truth. We as readers must remember that we live in the New Covenant and that a regenerated believer must view scripture under this pretense. We need to read John 4 and put this into context under the New Covenant. Yes, there are times when marriages become difficult, but it is usually because of a sin that needs repentance. A believer remains under the hand of God in any situation, including waiting in singleness should a prodigal spouse abandon the marriage. After all, we are in covenant with the Lord Jesus Christ. Thus, divorce is never an option for the believer. 



In conclusion, the problem that people have with understanding that a “remarriage” is not a valid marriage is a belief that God recognizes a “remarriage” as valid when He calls it adultery. In the case of the woman at the well, we cannot make a general assumption that the Lord recognized her marriages as valid simply by believing that He referred to her five husbands. Under the Law of Moses, this woman did believe that she was married five times that these men were her husbands. But, it very clear that the man she was living with was not her husband and this was sin.


We have no record that this woman left this man she was living with to walk in singleness. We have no record of her actions after she received news that this man was eventually crucified by the Romans and on the third day He rose from the dead and was seen by many. (Acts 8:5,6) What we do know is that she was dramatically changed by the words of the Messiah. If this man was indeed the “Living Water” that we all need, then what are the actions of those who see sin for what it is and react accordingly? Will we walk in spirit and truth to worship the Father?


Had this woman rejected the words of spirit and truth by the “prophet” at the well, would she receive this living water? The Lord exposed the sins in this woman’s life because He wanted her to see that those who worship the Father must come through the Son and worship Him in spirit and in truth.  The Lord pointed to this woman’s need for a Savior. The Father requires holiness and perfection which can only come through faith in the Son who fulfilled the law completely. Do we understand that when those who seek to know the Messiah, we can simply point to the Lord Jesus Christ who says, “I that speak unto thee am he.”


John 4:21-24 Jesus saith unto her, Woman, believe me, the hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father. Ye worship ye know not what: we know what we worship: for salvation is of the Jews. But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him.  God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.


In Christ’s love,

Neil