Matthew 22:15 Then
went the Pharisees, and took counsel how they might entangle him in his talk. 16 And
they sent out unto him their disciples with the Herodians, saying, Master, we
know that thou art true, and teachest the way of God in truth, neither carest
thou for any man: for thou regardest not the person of me 17 Tell us therefore, What thinkest thou? Is it lawful
to give tribute unto Caesar, or not? 18 But Jesus perceived their wickedness, and said, Why
tempt ye me, ye hypocrites? 19 Shew me the tribute money. And they brought unto him
a penny.
20 And he saith unto them, Whose is this image and
superscription?
21 They say unto him, Caesar's. Then saith he unto
them, Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's; and unto God
the things that are God's.
The corner of church and state…Where do we draw the line?
Paul said we should submit to the government authorities in Romans 13 and Peter
said that we should submit yourselves to every
ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme…
1 Peter 2:13-17. Paul begins Romans 13… Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there
is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God. (Romans 13:1)
What we know from scripture is that
God is sovereign over all. He sets kingdoms in place and He destroys those
nations who reject Him. In the time of Peter and Paul, the Romans government
had jurisdiction over the Jewish nation of Israel. The Jews despised Roman authority, yet Jesus said…”Render
therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's; and unto God the things
that are God's.” Yet these same men sought to trick
Jesus by asking…”Is it lawful to give tribute unto Caesar, or not?”The irony is that the Pharisees who rejected Roman law used
this law to crucify the Lord.
This brings into question those who ask…When is a marriage a
marriage, is it according to God, or the government? There are some who will
say that a marriage must be approved by the church, and there are some who say
that once the state says you are married, you are married. However, is it
possible that even if both the church and the government say you are married,
could God prove otherwise?
Right now as I write this, several states recognize same-sex
marriage. Yet, I am sure there are some people in these states will say that
same-sex marriage is not a marriage. Right now if you publicly disagree that
same-sex marriage is not a marriage, it may not be such a big deal. Some may
call you homophobic. This is bad, because then it is assumed or presumed you
hate all homosexuals based on your public admission that same-sex marriage is
not a marriage. The danger comes if the nation as a whole regards those who
disagree with same-sex marriage as homophobic. Where will you stand?
According to the word of God, marriage is only between a man
and a woman. If we stop there, we could say that God recognizes ALL marriages
between a man and a woman. Yes, God does indeed honor all marriages between a
man and a woman, yet God also sets the conditions and standards of this one-flesh covenant of
marriage. What we need to understand is that since God sets the conditions and
standards of marriage, any man, woman, or institution that changes these
conditions and standards is an enemy of God. This includes man-made denominations
that claim the name of Jesus.This includes states and principlaites He puts in power.
Same-sex marriage is a full perversion of God’s design for
marriage since the proponents of this stance recognize human sexuality as
subjective in nature and in creation. Thus, these proponents believe God is
subjective in His word toward the homosexual. Yet, scripture shows us that sexual
intercourse fully consummates the vow of marriage. This consummation is foreign
to a homosexual. It is physically impossible for two men or two women to
consummate a marriage. In addition, a vow to marry is spiritually impossible
since God calls homosexuality sin. Therefore, a professing church that
“ordains” a same-sex marriage is in direct disobedience to God. This tells us
much about the institution of this particular professing church as much as it
tells us of their willingness to disobey God and His word. Yet, they will say
that they abide in accordance to the state in which they perform these unions.
Reminds me of the Pharisees...
If we rewind this a little bit, we see that professing
churches have already gave way to the culture and the laws of the land by
believing that no-fault divorce applies to their denomination. Certainly, there
are churches who do not believe in no-fault divorce, yet they believe that
there are loopholes to exit a one-flesh covenant marriage. Exception clauses
and Pauline privileges come to mind…Is “remarriage” a marriage? Sure, if you
believe God says that a divorce ends a marriage. Yet, we see that divorce does
not end a one-flesh marriage covenant.
According to God’s word, a believer should only marry in the
Lord. (1 Cor 7:39) This is not to
say that an unbeliever will not join in marriage. God certainly recognizes all
marriages between a man and a woman, yet some who will claim that they married and
God did not approve of their marriage. This is usually applicable to those who
divorce because their marriage did not work out as they thought it would. Alternatively,
they believed that since they were an unbeliever at the time, that God did not recognize
their marriage. This is false because they not only ignorantly entered into
marriage, they did so without recognizing who it is that designed marriage.
If God created us in His image and we say that marriage is
anything but His design, we make a god in our own image and this is nothing but
idolatry. An unbeliever will have no excuse when they stand before the Lord on
the last day and say…”I didn’t know there was a god, am I exempt from judgment?”
Since God designed marriage, it is best we come to a very good understanding of
what is required to those who vow in marriage. This would include how and when
a marriage ends. If a church, state, or anyone determines when a marriage
begins and ends, and this is not according to God’s design, they will have to
answer to God.
The question asked by most professing believers ask is this…What
if I married as an unbeliever, divorced and remarried a believer, and then came
to salvation in Christ?
There are several
problems here. First, a person who “claims” to be an unbeliever is actually
saying they hate God, yet God is good enough to approve their marriage, AND
their divorce, AND their remarriage. They make the claim that they are under
grace, therefore the new marriage is binding. However, according to God, a marriage is a covenant binding until death. Divorce does not break the bond of marriage. In addition,
why would a believer marry you if they knew you were an unbeliever before your divorce?
In addition, the person who married you did not marry in the Lord since you
were divorced, AND an unbeliever (2 Cor 6:14).
Then there is the person who says…. I was an unbeliever when
I married and divorced; I became a believer and then remarried another
believer. Again, there are several problems here. First, you make a claim that
you did not know God, yet you make a vow to God to marry someone. Then you come
to salvation in Christ after divorcing another unbeliever. Then you believe
that your first marriage was not a marriage, all the while claiming that God
forgave you while you were yet a sinner. Yet, you cannot forgive the person you
divorced….
There is a cheap grace in marriage, divorce, and remarriage
for those who wish to invalidate their marriage while they see no problem in
validating their divorce and remarriage. The problem is not the definition of marriage;
the problem is self-absorbed people who desire what seems right in their own
eyes. These same people can use scripture to support their decisions….They will
say God is full of grace and mercy. Yet, if you ask this same person if they were
full of grace and mercy for their spouse in their first marriage...Can you see this double standard to validate with grace for divorce and remarriage, yet ignore the grace to stay in the vow of marriage?
Grace and mercy is for those who repent of sin, not for
those who validate sin and remain in sin. Marriage is God’s design and ANYONE
who perverts the conditions of marriage regardless if they are an unbeliever, a
homosexual, and adulterer, a pastor, a state official, or a professing believer
will have to answer to Him. If you entered a marriage believing that it is not according
to His design, then you will answer to Him. Divorce is for a hardhearted person
who lied to God when they took a vow of marriage. Remarriage is adultery and
remains adultery until repentance. This is regardless of whether you believed,
did not believe, or simply listened to someone who thought otherwise.
Thousands of denominations pervert the word of God when His
word pertains to marriage, divorce and remarriage. It started with one person
who believed they could divorce to end a marriage. No one said a word. Then
there were two more, three more, before you know it, the state adds a law like
"no-fault divorce" and the professing church follows suit. Then there is one
remarriage after divorce….no one says a word. Then 50% of all marriages end in divorce
and many of these remarry and no one calls this the sin of adultery anymore. Before
you know it, a homosexual says that he has every right to marry just like the heterosexual…surely;
the church would not bow down to this sexual perversion and believe in same-sex
marriage?...Stay tuned.
American Evangelical Christian theologian, philosopher, and Presbyterian pastor, Francis Schaeffer ~ “Tell me what the world is saying today, and I'll tell you what the church will be saying in seven years.”
These are some very prophetic words for the church from Francis Schaeffer. What the world loves is sure to follow in the church. However, there is a difference between the institution of traditions and the true body of Christ. The short letter of Jude sums up the state of our godless
society that has entered and saturated into the very walls of theses institutions of tradition, cathedrals,
and churches across the globe.
Jude 1:3 Beloved,
when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was
needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly
contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints. 4 For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were
before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of
our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus
Christ.
The warnings are clear. There is a way seems right onto man,
but this way is death. The word of God will never change and if we change the
word of God to suit our own desires, we really need to ask ourselves if we are
following the God in spirit or we are following the world in our flesh. Repentance
is turning away from sin and trust by faith in the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ.
There is time…God is merciful for the humble, but the prideful He will most certainly not
endure.
In Christ’s love,
Neil
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